| Our vocations are properly spelled out neither
to others nor to us.
There are four possibilities: (1) I don't know who I am on
the
inside; (2) You don't know who I am on the inside; (3) I don't
know who I am on the outside; (4) You don't know who I am
on
the outside. You can see the symmetry of these choices. The
Grid
of Misunderstandings is commonly called the Matrix of Vocational
Illusions. It is used quite readily by any number of career
counselors and (less frequently) labor market analysts. |